Sunday, September 21, 2025

Bob Update 9/21/2025

 


The past 4 days have been like hanging by a thread over a tornado below me. 
No Bob's fall 5 days ago did not do permanent injury

His back still hurts, he has been flat of his back in bed for days, and had to be forced to move, by caregiver and PT, OT, RN etc. the worst part is his dementia escalated and this means I de-escalated, mine went with his.
I know what you are thinking. Then how did you do this post. Its because Sunday we have no visitors, and I have been awake since 1 am listening to him talk out of his head, sitting on sofa where he can SEE me, because he panics if I am out of sight.
Things are NOT Good, I am Not Good, he is Not Good. Beau is not Good.
Each day Beau and I have our Alone Time on our daily walk.
God's blessings were with us as we walked in Cool Temps, 74 blessed degrees with a heavy breeze from our beaches.

A stunning view of a hawk that was at least 20 inches tall, sitting on the wire watching for his breakfast
photo from https://pictureinsect.com/wiki/Romalea_microptera.html

 and at our feet we found the Eastern Lubber Grasshopper that research showed us a large, up to 4 inches and this one was that long, that is a flightless, munching  pest to all plants and is also toxic. The thing is just seeing her was a treat, so brightly colored. And as we round the corner into our yard coming home, God's Gift was  there to walk through.
I could not get a photo, with Beau on leash and cars both directions, we could only view the sight of the giant orange sun, sitting directly in the middle of our street on the horizon, as it spilled golden flood of light down the entire street in front of us. I took Beau inside and came back up but nothing left for my phone to take.
I took and old photo of our yard and added the sea of gold that we saw.
Thank  you Lord for the safe and beautiful walk and for my brain to work long enough to do this post. We are not back yet, soon I hope. We visit the Orthapedic Doctor tomorrow for the final check up of his fractured ankle and hope and pray there is no fracture from the fall that we don't know about.

Flood of gold by MadSnapper using old photo in procreate

5 comments:

David M. Gascoigne, said...

Very difficult times indeed, Sandra. I don’t think I can imagine the daily issues you have to cope with. My thoughts are with you but that is little consolation or comfort.

DawnTreader said...

Thanks for the update. It's good to know that you still have an eye for moments of beauty, in the midst of your daily chaos... ♥♥ Hope all goes as well as possible with the appointment tomorrow!

eileeninmd said...

Thanks for the update Sandra! I am glad you are able to get out for a walk with Beau, the descriptions of what you saw sound beautiful. The sunrise and hawk sightings are simple pleasures that can bring you some joy. I hope all goes well with the appointment tomorrow. Sending prayers and hugs for you all!

Ann said...

Oh my word, his arm looks horrible. That really looks like it would hurt.
I imagine those morning walks with Beau are a little bit of heaven, especially when it gives you beautiful sights to see.
Hope all goes well with the Orthopedic doctor tomorrow.

Tama-Chan, Benny, Vidock, Violette, Ollie, Heloise, Momo, Ryu said...

We are sending you a big hug all the way from France.