Sunday, December 14, 2025

365 lesson 307

 



My life is in knots, so is my brain. each day has its own difficulty. My To Do list is long and filled with things I do not want to tackle. I put them off, go through the list and do the NEEDS and then the ones I can do easily, leaving the ones that make me anxious until another day. Phone calls, I have 4 on a list, involving health issues and insurance, and those are the ones that create worry and fears.

Lesson 307 in the book above is
OVERCOME THE BONDS OF PROCRASTINATION

If you do nothing in a difficult time, your strength is limited. Proverbs 24:10 

If we are tied in knots, with fear, anxiety,worry, our challenge is to confront the fears and overcome them. Overcome the bonds that tie us. If that will be unpleasant, know that if we do nothing, our fears will continue. Make that appointment you dread. Fight that fight for insurance coverage.
If unpleasant work needs to be done, do it sooner than later.

The sooner we begin working to resolve our fears, the sooner our life will be better.

Don't wait, Do not procrastinate.
Do the worst, and do it first.  
I wrote this little rhyme to help push myself to do what I do not want to do.

The prayer for lesson 307 is
Lord, today is a new day. Help me tackle the important tasks first, even if they are unpleasant. don't let me put off until tomorrow what I can and should do today. Amen
Below is a prayer I found several years back and is today From the past.

The Knots Prayer


Dear god:


Please untie the Knots


that are in my mind,


my heart and my life.


Remove the have-nots,


the can-nots and the do nots


that I have in my mind.


Erase the will nots,may-nots,might nots 


that may find a home in my heart.


Release me from the could nots,


would nots and


should nots that obstruct my life


and most of all,


Dear God,


I ask that you remove from my mind,

my heart and my life all of the "am nots"

especially the thought that I am not good enough.

Amen.  Author known only to God.


the color red for Christmas Past 2025


14 comments:

Ginny Hartzler said...

What a poem! I do agree about doing the worst thing first. Because if you don't, it just prolongs your dread and it builds up. LOVE your nook image!!

CheerfulMonk said...

Yes, a great poem! I do hope things get easier for you, though. ❤️

Tigger's Mum said...

I procrastinate badly over administrative stuff - phone calls, emails, making appointments, sorting out licences, insurance, or bills. When I finally bite the bullet and address stuff that can't be put off any linger it usually turns out to be easy or at least resolvable - but that doesn't motivate me to procrastinate less over the next thing that throws sand in my gears.

Yamini MacLean said...

Hari OM
I am not a fearful person, but I do have the procrastination gene and as I've grown older it seems almost harder to face up to those tasks that are about keeping things going. I suspect there is a tiny bit of anarchist in me that resents so many things that "have" to be done... but once done, it certainly lifts a weight. Like TM, though, knowing that I'll feel better for acting doesn't seem to register at the next hurdle... I love your post and it is timely reminder! YAM xx

David M. Gascoigne, said...

Knowing that one should not procrastinate and actually following through are two different things. And when one knows that doing something is bound to cause anxiety, it is very easy to keep putting it off.

eileeninmd said...

Hello Sandra
I am not a procrastinator, hubby is. Great poem and post.
My job this morning is to clear up the snow off the cars and the driveway. I am glad it is not a morning for dialysis, we would not make there. We had about 4 inches of snow, Miney is not sure if she likes walking in the snow. We will see how that goes later today. Take care of yourself! Have a great day!

Donna said...

A sweet poem... I always tackle the hard things First...get them out of the way! Then it's so much easier when getting to the easy ones...I feel like I really accomplished a lot.
hugs
Donna

jabblog said...

Timely lessons there for many of us.

Ann said...

A wonderful poem. I'm a terrible procrastinator. That makes sense though to tackle the hardest things first.

DawnTreader said...

Not always easy to even determine what's most important though.... I have one friend on FB, working in pastoral care, who is always reminding of the importance of "self-care" and setting aside time to relax, rest and have fun as well... In order to keep up energy for the rest!

Mari said...

Very good advice here! I find that often the things I've procrastinated on aren't as bad as anticipated once I start.

Shug said...

Just to think how much better we would feel if we did the hardest things first and got them out of our way. a lot of the anxiety and stress would be gone. The thing with me is I'm not a procrastinator..If something is on my mind, I have to get it taken care of immediately..the hardest part for me is when it's Friday afternoon at 5:00 and everything is closed until Monday morning..

My Mind's Eye said...

I am a firm believer in not putting off til tomorrow what you can do today.
I did enjoy your post and thoughts
Hugs Cecilia

photowannabe said...

This is a wonderful post Sandra. That book is truly a God send for you and the direction and encouragement you find in it.
Your poem and prayer are Right On !
Doing the hardest first is really Hard but the results do so much for our bodies and our minds. Thank you for sharing my friend.
(((hugs)))
Sue